Learning English in school can often feel abstract and disconnected from real-life use. That’s how it felt for me—I understood grammar rules but had no chance to use them in meaningful ways, especially with native speakers. When I tried watching English-language movies, I found the accents, slang, and cultural expressions overwhelming. But as a movie buff, I was determined to bridge this gap and truly understand the language. I did not want to limit myself to a scholastic understanding of the language, I wanted to truly immerse myself in the fiction I liked, and become as close as possible to a native speaker. Through trial and error, I discovered a method that not only worked but also made learning fun and rewarding. I went through this in high school and it was truly what I needed in order to bring my language skills to the next level and give me confidence. Here’s how you can follow the same approach:

Step 1: Start with Familiar Content
Choose movies, TV shows, or books you’ve already experienced in your native language. Familiarity with the plot allows you to focus on understanding the language itself instead of getting distracted by trying to follow the story.
For Movies:
Watch the English version with English subtitles. Subtitles help you match spoken words with their written forms, making it easier to understand accents and pronunciation.
Pause and rewind when necessary. Don’t hesitate to replay scenes that have interesting expressions or are particularly difficult to catch.
Keep a notebook for new phrases. Write down words or expressions that catch your attention, along with translations or notes.
For Books and Manga:
Pick material you love, such as manga, novels, or graphic novels, that has been translated into English.
Focus on understanding the context rather than looking up every single unfamiliar word. Let the story guide you and fill in the gaps naturally.

Step 2: Immerse Yourself Through Repetition
Repetition is one of the most effective tools for language acquisition. It reinforces memory and helps you internalize sentence structures and vocabulary.
Re-watch movies multiple times. Each viewing will reveal something new, whether it’s better comprehension of dialogue or nuances in pronunciation.
Review your notes. Go over the phrases and expressions you’ve collected. Read them out loud to practice pronunciation and fluency.
Incorporate what you learn. Use new words and expressions in your daily life, whether in writing or casual conversations.

Step 3: Gradually Remove Support
As you grow more confident, challenge yourself to rely less on subtitles and translations. This step can feel intimidating, but it’s crucial for developing listening skills and natural comprehension.
Watch English movies without subtitles. Start with movies or shows you’ve already seen before, as the familiarity will help you fill in the gaps.
Use subtitles sparingly. If you encounter a particularly tricky scene, allow yourself to check the subtitles briefly, but don’t become reliant on them.

Step 4: Focus on Enjoyment and Emotional Connection
One of the most powerful motivators for learning is genuine enjoyment. When you’re emotionally connected to what you’re engaging with, the process becomes less of a chore and more of a passion.
Choose content you love. Whether it’s your favorite movie genre, a captivating book series, or a beloved manga, make sure it’s something that excites you.
Pay attention to cultural nuances. Casual language, idioms, and slang often reflect cultural context. Understanding these helps you connect with native speakers on a deeper level.
Celebrate the joy of learning. Finding an expression that isn’t taught in school or catching a subtle joke in a movie can be incredibly satisfying.

Step 5: Celebrate Your Progress
Recognize and celebrate how far you’ve come. Progress in language learning can be gradual, but it’s important to acknowledge the milestones you achieve.
Reflect on your growth. Every once in a while, review your notebook of expressions and remember how much you’ve learned since starting.From depending on subtitles to understanding dialogue without them, these small wins add up.
Take pride in your accomplishments. Every word you master and every scene you understand is a step toward fluency.
Why This Method Works
This approach blends passion with practical strategies. By engaging with real-life language through movies, books, and other media, you’re immersing yourself in how English is used naturally—beyond textbooks and grammar exercises.I think the problem with many English learners is the fact that they feel like language learning is an external imposition, something like they have to do in order to get a better job or better grades. Getting rid of that pressure and learning for the sake of emotional connection to fictional material can help learners acquire better and more natural fluency.
(By Martina Bottazo)